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Interpersonal Interaction with Romantic Partners
What are some interesting topics to talk over with your girlfriend to make conversation interesting?
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Here are some topics that came to my mind:
5. Latest gadgets
6. Latest cool apps available
7. New places to explore
9. Kool places in Mumbai
10. Television series
11. Heroes and heroines
13. Celebs lifestyle
14. Food and nutrition
15. Health tips and trivials
18. Past experiences
19. Personal problems
20. Physical intimacy (depending on the person)
21. Funny events
22. Your innate feelings
23. Job issues
27. Animal kingdom
28. Human anatomy
29. Mind blowing facts
31. Fashion and style
32. Family and relatives
33. Closest friends
34. College life
36. Future plans
37. Partner preferences
38. Products and services
39. Dance, music, art and culture
41. Weddings around the world
43. Career choices
44. Art of living
46. Monuments and buildings
47. World wars
48. Famous leaders
49. All time losers
50. Frustating personalities
51. Scientific discoveries
52. Reasons for relationship failures
53. Gods and Goddesses
55. Festivals and celebrations
56. Indian law and judicial system
57. Diseases and cures
58. Ghosts and paranormal activities
59. Stock markets
60. Cars and bikes
Last but not the least…. Anything senseless.
It doesnt have to be a senseful convo always…. sometimes you should just talk non sense and you will see what fun it is.
PS: I hope my list of topics helped you. 🙂
You can discuss any topic under the sun with her because afterall she’s your girlfriend. You can discuss about:
- How was her day? Her daily routine like menu of lunch & dinner, about her office/college etc
- Her likes & dislikes
- About her family & friends
- Sharing daily events is a good way to start conversation. Chat must be both sided. If you share then she shares, the chat will take a nice direction
- Romantic chat is also necessary
- You can take any current affair & ask her opinion about it. This will help you to keep track of current news too
- Plan out a meeting & discuss about it
- Share thoughts, feelings, selfies, childhood memories, friends etc.
- Throw any general interesting topics like do you believe in god & ghost? This topic is easy to drag if you want. You may discuss about movies, time travel, cartoons, travelling, hobbies etc
- Ask more question. It’s easy to chat in a question-answer frame. Passion, hobbies are the best topics because people never get disinterested while talking about these
Not to mention, if you start fighting over chatting, the chat is never gonna end & you don’t even have to look for topics. All the past doings will also be recalled & described through chatting!:p
Relationships, if spoken of in an exclusive context, are special for both of the involved parties. You integrate someone else’s life with your own. You let them in emotionally and they get to know you better than the rest of the world. Such attitude is a source of contentment for involved individuals as they cherish the fact that someone out there cares for them and wants what is best for them. This is the psyche of people in a normal relationship whether it is platonic or romantic. When it comes to identifying a toxic relationship, it is important to look into the other person’s past and observe the series of events that has shaped him or her into the person they are today. When you choose a partner, you should be focusing on the parts of his character that really matter to you so that both of you can understand each other better and the relationship maintains its positive tone.
The choice of who you bond with shall always rest with you, so it is only fair that you ask yourself whether you have made the right decision. If you have had some trouble with someone you cared about in the past then it has to have left deep scars on your personality. When you choose a partner based on how people have treated you in the past, then it is highly likely that you chose the wrong person. Learning to trust again, after being in an abusive relationship, takes a lot of time and courage. This contradiction in your mind, this constant war between what you believe in and what you have learned from hard core experience can be disastrous for your relationship.
Also, it would be better if you get to know the other person before you decide to make any big decisions. Talk to them, see what makes them tick, observe their lifestyle, pick on subtle queues, and interpret body language. It is very important that you be able to pick up on random aggressive gestures and see if the sudden volatile behavior is as harmless as it seems. Emotional stability should never be ignored.
You can talk to them about your future, life,desires, draems, her problems, shopping and a lot of other stuff. I recently read an article on things to talk about with your girlfriend . It is a worth read .
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This definitely depends on where in your relationship, and lives, you are. If youre just starting out you should ask her about her hobbies and what makes them interesting to her.
Its important not to sound like you more about it than her, since this will disencourage her from talking to you about something that would otherwise tell you a lot about her.
If you know about the topic, engage! For instance: “did you see that recent studies suggest…” or “I think its really interesting how the relationship progressed in the sequel” – this will further the conversation.
If you dont know anything about the topic, dont be embarrassed or scared! Ask about it: “can you explain what the difference between ___ and ___ is?” Or simply just “what is your favourite part of…”
One thing that never fails, no matter where in the relationship you are, is asking about her day. Not only will she think its nice of you to ask, its also a thing thing thatll breed more conversation:
You: “How was your day?”
Her: “One of my coworkers, Patrice, broke the printer and…”
Her: “Youll never guess what happened today!”
Her: “Patrice broke a stapler! First a printer, now a stapler! Does she have a secret agenda against office supplies?”
, The Mercurial Man, The Intellectual, The Worker,The Peacemaker,The Wanderer,The Helper,The Friend,The Lover…
Most girls like books. Find one on a bestseller list that interests you, read it, and then impress the crap out of her with your literary mad skills. A killer-app question to start the convo ball rolling is – ask her what she’s passionate about in life and see what type of response you get… 🙂 It’ll be a good one.
I guess that depends on what you talked about when you first started dating.
If either of you were into sports, then plans to see or participate in a sporting event is always ideal: it alludes to future tense, while keeping the topic grounded in commonality.
What did you two talk about in the beginning? Go to the next level where that topic is concerned.
, I have met countless persons and learned countless lessons from them…
Some very good answers have been given to you already.
For additional inspiration you might want to look at this article: How to turn small talk into smart conversation .